Help with federated nodebb posts

[approxinfinity]

Hi guys!

Ive tried to post to this category from here, and it looks like it worked from my end, but when I come over here i dont see it.

https://www.unshittified.club/topic/26/testing-federated-content

Also i set https://unshittified.club/actor as a relay from kubuckets.com and vice versa as well as a few other relays but they are all listed as pending. Didnt know if there was an additional step i needed to do, at least for the domains i control?

And when i @other-sites@unshittified.com from kubuckets it doesnt hyperlink