miserable (closeted trans girl dealing with self hate over not meeting peoples expectations of her, because they want her to be a boy, and she wants nothing more than to be a girl) vs miserable (out trans girl who has to deal with overcoming the trauma...

[julia@eepy.moe]

miserable (closeted trans girl dealing with self hate over not meeting peoples expectations of her, because they want her to be a boy, and she wants nothing more than to be a girl) vs miserable (out trans girl who has to deal with overcoming the trauma inflicted by having been in the closet for so long)

[oli@mastodon.hermitcollective.net]

@julia i might be closer to the first than i'd like