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Fediverse Challenge: Prove there's still good in the world

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  • J jimmy90@lemmy.world

    lemmy and doomerism are synonymous at this point

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    mrdown@lemmy.world
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    What I said is factual

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    • Iced RaktajinoI Iced Raktajino

      I guess what you're calling "toxicity" is something I've dealt with more-or-less successfully by just blocking and switching instances. In fact, those are so far out of my mind I forgot to include them in my "see things through the eyes of a new user" experiment (I only unblocked communities/instances for that). But yeah, considering how many people, communities, and lemmy.ml + dbzer0 I've had to block and how much work that was and continues to be, I guess that does speak to a bigger problem that could be solved by better modding. I would hope some of the more egregious bad behavior only gets a pass because this place is so relatively small, but I fear that's just me being naive.

      Topic areas would be amazing and a much better onboarding experience than dumping you into the community list or /all. Topics you want to see, topics you never want to see, and maybe have it build a default subscription and/or default block list for those. And maybe a better "duplicate" detection system where there's like 5 posts for the same non-story about a rich person farting and the Fediverse breaking out the torches and pitchforks over it. At least then you could slow-boil you way to the angry stuff that currently dominates the feed and give you a chance to turn those off rather than turning you away from the platform.

      I would love to try Piefed because I keep hearing that it's basically adding all the features Lemmy has needed forever, but TBH, my instance would have to migrate to Piefed or stand up a copy. I was on .world before I moved to startrek.website and the "feel" is just so much better here (general negativity of the overall Threadiverse notwithstanding). As you said, that's primarily due to modding and giving the perma boot to the ones who don't play well with others (as large as my block list is here, it's significantly smaller than the blocklist I had on .world before I just gave up it as an instance).

      Even Linux took decades to arrive at where it is at today

      True. I'll admit I'm impatient (my major remaining rough edge therapy has not yet conquered lol) but every time I see a brand new account coming in with their first post bitching about getting banned from Reddit it's just a reminder that we're not attracting the best and brightest here but rather the ones who have nowhere else to go. And they bring that behavior here and it just seems like it takes us further away from becoming a real alternative people actually want to go to. I'm going off on a tangent, I know, so I'll stop here.

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      OpenStars
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      we’re not attracting the best and brightest here but rather the ones who have nowhere else to go. And they bring that behavior here and it just seems like it takes us further away from becoming a real alternative people actually want to go to.

      This right here. There's a famous adage that goes "why would I want to be a member of a club that would accept me as a member?", which encourages us to look within, but it's undeniably true as well (however much we may want to deny it) that we are influenced by the actions of those who we choose to spend our time with. Echo chambers that act to funnel misinformation (or worse, active disinformation) are so incredibly dangerous. Yet it seems nearly impossible to escape from such - though we do get to choose our favorite flavoring of it.

      I will note that making an account on PieFed does not represent any kind of "commitment" at all, and in fact has ancillary benefits such as reserving your username in advance in case you ever do decide to switch. Simply make an account on PieFed.social and you'll get to see first-hand what all it offers! Do beware though bc most likely one glance at that sign-up wizard will make you fall in love 💕, and then more and more often you'll find yourself using your PieFed rather than STW alt account. But is that a bad thing, to have options to choose from?! 😋

      For a new member coming to Lemmy, my advice would be to:

      1. Block instances
      2. Block communities
      3. Subscribe to communities (traditionally by scrolling through All)
      4. Block users
      5. Comment and Post

      We need to move past these bare-bones basics. Which I don't see much activity happening there on the Lemmy side to improve any of that, though I do see much happening in PieFed, hence I am placing my hopes for the future into it.

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      • A acockworkorange@mander.xyz

        I would love to not be bombarded with US news in communities where it has no business showing up.

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        combatwombatesq@lemmy.world
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        I think there’s a lot of communities where the mods have gone inactive and no-one’s noticed yet, so when you get stuff in the wrong community there’s no-one to clean it up. Iirc, there’s a process for getting added as a mod for those communities — maybe it’s something we could help with?

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        • M mrdown@lemmy.world

          We are living in a world full of conflicts and political tension that we never seen since the end of world war 2. You can't expect people to post less negstive contents. If you talk about balance between negative and positive content I can agree

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          moonshadow@slrpnk.net
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          The worse things get the more important positivity becomes, mrdown. You can at least try.

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          • M moonshadow@slrpnk.net

            The worse things get the more important positivity becomes, mrdown. You can at least try.

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            mrdown@lemmy.world
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            The worse things get the most vocal people should so we find solutions. Hiding your face in the sand do not help

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            • M mrdown@lemmy.world

              The worse things get the most vocal people should so we find solutions. Hiding your face in the sand do not help

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              moonshadow@slrpnk.net
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              Panicked screaming doesn't exactly help either man. Good luck out there 🙂

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              • M moonshadow@slrpnk.net

                Panicked screaming doesn't exactly help either man. Good luck out there 🙂

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                mrdown@lemmy.world
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                Acknowledging the reality and be vocal about it is not panicked screaming

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                • A acockworkorange@mander.xyz

                  I would love to not be bombarded with US news in communities where it has no business showing up.

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                  mrdown@lemmy.world
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                  Yes, there is the economy community that only post politics on it

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                  • M mrdown@lemmy.world

                    Acknowledging the reality and be vocal about it is not panicked screaming

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                    moonshadow@slrpnk.net
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                    And keeping a light in the darkness isn't sticking your 'face' in the sand. Whatever you try, I hope it works for you 🙂

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                    • M moonshadow@slrpnk.net

                      And keeping a light in the darkness isn't sticking your 'face' in the sand. Whatever you try, I hope it works for you 🙂

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                      mrdown@lemmy.world
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                      I talked about balance in my first comment. I talked about finding solutions aka keeping light in the darkness. I don't know why people are always selectively reading my comments

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                      • M mrdown@lemmy.world

                        I talked about balance in my first comment. I talked about finding solutions aka keeping light in the darkness. I don't know why people are always selectively reading my comments

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                        moonshadow@slrpnk.net
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                        Communication can be tricky. I always wonder what motivates someone to downvote the other half of a conversation like this. Hope you feel better understood next time and have a nice day 🙂

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                        • M moonshadow@slrpnk.net

                          Communication can be tricky. I always wonder what motivates someone to downvote the other half of a conversation like this. Hope you feel better understood next time and have a nice day 🙂

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                          mrdown@lemmy.world
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                          An advice for you. Hide downvotes and upvotes in setting . It is good for people well being including me

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                          • C combatwombatesq@lemmy.world

                            I think there’s a lot of communities where the mods have gone inactive and no-one’s noticed yet, so when you get stuff in the wrong community there’s no-one to clean it up. Iirc, there’s a process for getting added as a mod for those communities — maybe it’s something we could help with?

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                            acockworkorange@mander.xyz
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                            Maybe. On the other hand, I can see a mod being reticent about nuking a post that has a high upvote ratio and a healthy discussion going.

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                            • M mrdown@lemmy.world

                              Yes, there is the economy community that only post politics on it

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                              acockworkorange@mander.xyz
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                              To be fair, politics shape a lot of the economy. But it pops up everywhere, TV show communities, hobbies, everything.

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                              • A acockworkorange@mander.xyz

                                Maybe. On the other hand, I can see a mod being reticent about nuking a post that has a high upvote ratio and a healthy discussion going.

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                                combatwombatesq@lemmy.world
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                                Lemmy’s mod tools allow for much more nuanced responses than just nuking a post. For instance, I think locking the post and adding a comment pointing folks to the same post in a more relevant community is something most people would react positively to. And, it’s definitely okay to have some communities be for very small groups of people with a very restrictive mod policy — there’s always a bigger, more permissive community available for people that want to discuss whatever.

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                                • C combatwombatesq@lemmy.world

                                  Lemmy’s mod tools allow for much more nuanced responses than just nuking a post. For instance, I think locking the post and adding a comment pointing folks to the same post in a more relevant community is something most people would react positively to. And, it’s definitely okay to have some communities be for very small groups of people with a very restrictive mod policy — there’s always a bigger, more permissive community available for people that want to discuss whatever.

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                                  acockworkorange@mander.xyz
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                                  it’s definitely okay to have some communities be for very small groups of people with a very restrictive mod policy

                                  I'd say that's not only ok but desirable. I forgot about locking posts, that would indeed be effective.

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                                    fruitycoder@sh.itjust.works
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                                    Or its a .ml instancrlol

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                                      fruitycoder@sh.itjust.works
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                                      Or its a .ml instance
                                      And moderation of certain topics is very active lol

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                                      • Iced RaktajinoI Iced Raktajino

                                        Yeah, to pretty much all that.

                                        My experience here is generally pretty pleasant, but it took a LOT of work blocking untold numbers of communities, users, and instances to get here. Other on-boarding difficulties aside (for less savvy users), it's just a big ask to expect them to do all that work just to not be hit in the face with all the negativity and raging and dig deep for everything else. Reddit may have numerous flaws, but at least I can go to the front page and it doesn't feel like I'm walking into the midst of an angry mob.

                                        My two cents is basically this: We did this to ourselves here. Elsewhere, we might have blamed the algorithms for pushing rage-bait front and center, but here it's 100% organic (unless there's just a massive bot problem which I don't have reason to suspect).

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                                        tubulartittyfrog@lemmy.world
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                                        rage drives engagement.

                                        it's just how the internet works. angry people post and reply a lot more than non-angry people.

                                        and angry posts tend to be shorter, easier to comprehend, and induce more angry responses.

                                        thoughtful and non-rage takes don't drive engagement from people. it mostly bores them.

                                        people come to be entertained, more than anything else.

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                                        • jimbo@pawb.socialJ jimbo@pawb.social

                                          I've been blocking so many news communities because I go on Lemmy to have a good time. Every second post recently has been politics and I'm so sick of it. I am so for this

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                                          tubulartittyfrog@lemmy.world
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                                          i'm from the US and I agree. Lemmy has really gone downhill the past few months and its FULL of ragebait posting of craptastic 'news' articles.

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